This might be the most important post on this blog. Because a whole lot of men (my older self included) do all kinds of shit to get the acceptance of their women. And what do you get? No sex.
Why? Because you made some divine being out of her that she a) isn’t, and b) can never achieve.
But, are women human at all? Are they nature? Goddesses? Angels? Mermaids?
Realizing the truth is actually a crucial part of becoming a man, which we are deprived of as men in this goddamn society.
A conqueror of women knows that a mother and a wife are worlds apart.The conqueror
Growing up with god
You see, there is a reason we call it “Mother Nature.” Nature is female.
Real-life example? Lots of men have no kids. Their genes just die out. But there is almost no woman who doesn’t have one child or more. Why? She is the gatekeeper to reproductive success. And the woman chooses who gets to further his genetic material.
Well, to a certain degree. Man does have a say in this (obviously), but you get my point. Female humans are the only ones of 5,000 mammal species where the woman actually chooses who to mate with.
In any other mammal species, the female go into heat, and then they mate with whoever comes by. Natural selection is then done by the Alpha Males chasing away the betas.
This is also the reason why being rejected is so hard on men. It’s not just that the woman doesn’t want to fuck you, it is nature itself who tells you, that you are not fit to survive. Nature itself rejects you.
What a woman actually says, if she rejects you, is, “I don’t mind your physical presence, but your genes should definitely not survive another generation.”
Which is generally translated into, “I think we should just be friends.”
–Freely quoted from Jordan Peterson.
So we men grow up with this picture of divinity. You come out of your mother. A woman.
She literally brought you to life (although she didn’t actually make you. That is the man’s part. Women get fertilized, men create; food for thought).
And then she takes care of you forever. Showers you with love. So you grow up with this image of the female in your mind. A god-like creature that literally keeps you alive.
A society of goddesses
If you grew up like I did, then you don’t have a father, because motherfucker just ditched. Quite literally.
You’re not the exception, more than 20 million children live in homes without a father (in America), many million more grow up with a physically present father, and that’s it.
So your mother does most of the heavy lifting. Emotionally, as well as raising you with values. Her mother is probably still around, another female imprinting on you.
Then you get thrown into kindergarten. Overwhelmingly female caretakers. A man doing that job is very rare.
School comes by. Mostly female teachers. In the United States alone, 94% of teachers in preliminary schools were female.
You get the picture. You grow up surrounded by females who are “above you” in virtues, morals, and how you should behave. Ask yourself when you grew up. When was there ever a male authority figure?
Very rarely, right?
So you grow up with all females being authority and sources of knowledge. On top of that, they are undeniable beautiful. They make your dick go crazy, and sex feels like heaven itself.
Naturally, you would ask yourself, “Are women human?”
The implications of the divine
The problem with any god-like creature, or let’s call it an “idol” is that it is also a judge. Jordan Peterson famously said that just to tribute him.
An idol always judges you. Either if you are not enough of a person to be on the same stage as the idol, or you’re not worthy enough to be with the idol. In this case, the female at large.
A wise man knows if you shall make the feminine into a god, you erase her out of reality.The conqueror
Just like a god who always judges people for their shortcomings. For they are never enough to aspire to his holiness.
If you put women on this pedestal, make them this divine in your head, you will never have a functioning relationship with any woman, ever. Here’s why.
Real women and divine women
Women are humans, just like men. That means they have issues, they act stupid sometimes, and they shit, fart, and piss, too.
They can be dirty, ugly, and even irritating as fuck. This means, if you portray the divine picture onto any woman, she can never achieve it.
No woman can ever be like the divine picture you have of her.
They are NOT literal angels, goddesses, or mermaids.
They can be in role play, and they can have an angelic attitude, but after all, they have issues like any human.
And they don’t even want to be glorified like that. Women don’t want to be worshipped like a goddess. Reality is, they want to be submissive, want to be facefucked, and swallow.
Is that something a god would do? It’s more the servant part, isn’t it? She is human. Just like you. With all the flaws and issues.
The key part of becoming a man
Probably the most important part of rising from the Nice Guy to the Ascendant is killing the evil queen. Remember sleeping beauty? The Disney movie? The guy has to kill the evil queen before he can wake up sleeping beauty with a kiss.
That is a metaphor for real life.
You need to slay that divine image of the female you have before you can actually have a proper relationship with ANY woman.
The boy turns into a man once the image of the feminine in his mind is killed and replaced with reality.The conqueror
You probably haven’t seen 50 Shades of Grey (it’s not a good movie anyway), but the novels for it are about an average woman who meets a billionaire successful man with a BDSM fetish.
She is hesitant at first, but will then happily submit to him.
This is her fantasy.
This is ANY woman’s fantasy! There is a reason they sold these books so damn quick. It’s what half of the population wants!
Stop sacrificing yourself and your traits for the goddess
Lots of weak men, the infamous Nice Guys, are bringing lots and lots of sacrifices to their girls. Maybe you do, too.
You give up your hobbies, you do everything she says, pick up all the chores at home. But she still doesn’t fuck you.
Because in that relationship, she isn’t a woman. She is a god, and you are a servant. A peasant.
And god’s never fuck with peasants.
It’s beneath their worth. You are not worthy of penetrating her. Physically as well as mentally. But this isn’t her fault. Most women don’t think of themselves as goddesses (some do, but they’re trash anyway).
It is in YOUR mind. You are the one projecting that image onto her.
Whenever she acts weird, you blame yourself. You didn’t honor the goddess enough. Or not right. When in reality, she was just acting stupidly, and you should call her out for that.
Divine Image versus reality
When you get together with a woman, and you don’t have feelings yet, you are usually yourself. A man. You do what you like.
This is the man she falls in love with. But over time, lots of men tend to succumb to the goddess. Their image of her.
Which is false. Not rooted in reality.
And then what happens? She starts to notice that her fantasy of you, the ‘you’ she has in her head isn’t reality. She’d like to be submissive and suck this guys’ brains out for days.
But this man isn’t there. It’s an image. A fantasy. He’s gone.
He changed into that simp. You’ve changed into that cuck.
This is also referred to as “losing frame.” More here.
Becoming one with your dick
What you need to do then is accept yourself. And your woman. You both are humans. None of you is some form of god.
You have issues. She has issues. Kill that goddess – servant image. You are not there to serve her.
A wise man values his time. The feminine has to be worthy of it as much as anyone else.The conqueror
She acts out? Irritating as fuck? Don’t try to do more chores to make her happy. Tell her she’s annoying as hell right now. Show her, that if she doesn’t earn your time, there are enough women out there who are willing to earn it.
Embrace who you are as a man. You’re 50% of a relationship. Not 20%. Don’t just be the provider guy, working all day to make money she spends on bullshit while she sucks the post mate.
Stand up for your goddamn self!
You have as much right to have your needs met as she does!
The conqueror does not succumb his needs for avoiding battles, for then he will lose the battle against himself.The conqueror
You might think you will lose her in the process. Unlikely. Most women actually want you to be a man. This is also how you get her to fuck you again.
But even if you lose her. Congratulations. You got out of a manipulating relationship. And trust me, you will be at peace with yourself. For you have ascended towards the Conqueror.
Did that open your eyes? Have you been in a servant relationship to the female goddess? Let me know your story in the comments!
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