Everything stands and falls with your masculinity. This is the basis of everything and thus the most important category on my blog. If your masculinity isn’t in check, all other categories won’t help much.
In this post I will use the example of sex because it’s the easiest to understand the concept. A common issue in Long-term relationships is that most men go about initiating sex with their woman in an outcome dependent way. They desperately want it to happen, so the energy they bring into the initiation is …
A man NEEDS to have sexual encounters. Yes, men like Shakespeare and Nietzsche were celibates, and see what they created. But most of us don’t know how to transmute sexual energy in this sense, so we need sex to satisfy that inner beast within our shadow. But, what to do if she rejects sex? If …
You likely will not accept this at first, but you gain a lot of external validation from the thing between a woman’s legs. Specifically in the context of marriage. The wife for many men is the gatekeeper to sex, so she reigns with a heavy hammer of power by closing her legs. This leaves you …
An issue many men face a few years into the marriage. Me included. At home it’s sweatpants, ponytail and a stained leggings, if so. At work, it’s high-heels, skirt, nice blouse. Naturally, man is pissed because this almost seems like disrespect and disvalue, right? So you go online and type “why does my wife dress …
Why does my wife dress up for work, but not for me? Read More »
You need to “kill” forgive your father. kill is in quotes here intentionally. I’m not telling anyone to literally kill their father, that would be stupid. No, this is meant metaphorically. It came up because I got a message from one of my brothers who said that ever since he tried to be on his …
You’ve been through a breakup or even a divorce and now you can’t stop thinking of her. It doesn’t matter who initiated it. Even if it was you and in the beginning, you finally felt free. At some point down the line, you just can’t get her out of your thoughts. Everything seems like it …
Can’t Stop Thinking About Her? Here’s Your Key to Freedom Read More »
The beauty of quotes is the fact that they contain a ton of information in just a few sentences. You know that feeling when you read a quote and your immediate reaction is, “Damn, that changes everything!” The power of language (which is why I love latin so much). And since I talk so much …
Any man wants to create a legacy at some point in his life. Some men are real family guys, others want children, but don’t want to play with them all day. They are the Khan, running an Empire, having multiple women and tons of children to further their bloodline and carve their names into the …
Preparing for Fatherhood – The Toxic Masculine Guide Read More »
Latin is a dead language, they say. Much like the great Empires of the past, it’s art (which language is as well) usually dies with it. Unless you work in a medical environment, nobody uses Latin anymore. Which is a shame because latin words and latin phrases still carry a lot of punch. They don’t …
DISCLAIMER before we start: this is an older post I wrote in my Shadow-Phase. Some things I still agree with, others not so much anymore. Please use even MORE caution while reading it than usual (you know my mantra: question everything!) Dark masculinity is a facet of the very complex thing called heteronormative cisgendered patriarch. …