Healthy masculinity superguide – What is true masculinity?

An emperor on a horse with his servant

Over the years, this society became more and more feminine. Masculinity is going down in flames.

What are the results? Sexless marriages, communism on the rise, genderfluid people, and guys twerking for climate change.

This society is in desperate need of true men. But what makes a true man? What is healthy masculinity? True masculinity? Is there a difference? And why is it being suppressed?

Feminized society

Over the years, society has told you and other young men, that you should be “in tune with your feminine” side. Which means, being more sensible, display your feelings and – by God – never affront anyone.

Because the aggressiveness of a man is bad.

So we raise little boys like they are broken girls. Try to make them more feminine, don’t fight with others in the mud (if you happen to be one of the lucky kids who gets to fight outside, instead of on your console).

We tell guys “Happy wife, happy life” which is by my accord the most atrocious bullshit this weird-ass society has ever pulled.

Really? If she is happy, everything’s fine? Your happiness? “Nah, who cares? Make the goddess happy.

Also, I made a Youtube Video about the movie Troy where this is greatly displayed, as well.

A clip from my Youtube channel where I used the movie Troy to show what true masculinity is.

What did we get out of this?

Where did this come from?

From a lack of great men. We let the women run rampant.

It was disguised under the “equality” curtain, but in reality, nobody kept the women in check. The majority of women don’t care about power, because they are in tune with their femininity.

But the social justice warriors and feminazis only want one thing: power.

Mostly because they can’t be who they truly want to be: women.

Most SJW’s aren’t mad at you or society. They are mad that they can’t be who they want to be. Because they are too lazy to put in the work to be a woman. They are projecting their insecurities onto you. They don’t have the mental strength to submit themselves to a great man, so they try to weaken men to become equal. Reduce tension.

So they try to change everyone else to fit into their view and do as they please.

It’s always easier to blame others than to change yourself.

True masculinity

A display of true masculinity

Men have always ruled the world. This hasn’t changed in thousands of years. We have built everything you see, everything you work with, everything you spend time with. And in the process, we also burned everything to the ground and built it up again.

We do what we like.

That is true masculinity: A man does things.

He creates. Builds. Destroys. Rebuilds. Destroys again.

A man cannot sit still his whole life. He has to do, build, create, destroy. For his worth is only a mirror of what he achieved.

The conqueror

It is the way of things. Just like nature destroys itself each winter, and builds itself up again each spring, so do men with civilizations and societies.

It’s like buying a new phone. Burn off the deadwood, start off anew.

Biology and true masculinity

Let’s talk about sex. In our deepest desire, the most basic human thing; in sex, the man creates.

We create life. The sperm is already a living being when it leaves your dick. They already waddle around and try to get to the egg.

The man creates, the women receives.

This is equally displayed in the most classic position. Missionary. The man thrusts, the woman receives.

Sperm moves and tries to fertilize whatever comes by. The egg is stationary and is to be fertilized.

Our basic biology tells us, what men do and should do, and what women do and should do. Men are here to do. Create and build.

We make the decisions.

The egg is stationary, it can’t move. It can’t decide where to go or who to be fertilized by. The man chooses where to put his sperm. Therefore, it is our decision.

A man who denies his basic biology is not a man; by definition.

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Modern masculinity

Yet, modern men suppress their deepest biology. They’ve lost touch with their own manliness.

What they should do and why they are on this earth. Hence it is not a surprise that women don’t want to fuck you. You’re not really a man, why would she have a desire for you?

Why should colleagues and peers respect you? If you don’t conquer the world?

Why should you respect yourself, if you can’t even control your own desires?

SJW’s are the loud minority. Most women – and potentially the ones you encountered – are deep down of traditional creation. The women you deal with and see out there would like to be submissive. If they learned how. You’re applying the “woke” lense society instilled in you on a biological female. That doesn’t work. And then you blame Trump.

So we end up with this weak, useless, whiny slob that is reading this article right now. Did I hurt your feelings? Man the fuck up!

I’m a random guy writing on a blog. How could I ever hurt your feelings?

Because you let me! You give away power. Anyone who can make you mad with shit like that has control over you. Not a good feeling, is it?

If you’re a young man, congratulations, you found this very important information much sooner than I – and most men – did.

Make use of it! Be a real man. And check this post out from my good friend from LifeMathMoney with 19 lessons for teenagers and young men.

Listen to reality

Lots of you guys have been conditioned by society. But those are the wrong “women” to listen to. You should listen to the actual girls out there. And check back with the man within you, if it applies.

Most women tell you straight up what they want. A truly masculine man. Who has charge. Is in tune with himself. Stands up for what is right. Follows his passions.

And whenever you read one of these news stories about how manspreading is wrong, and how you should ask for consent, before you approach a woman, listen to your inner self. Does this feel right? Does this feel like something a conqueror would do?


You don’t need permission from anyone.

A great man does not ask for permission. If anything, he asks for forgiveness afterward.

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You don’t need permission from your wife to do anything. Who is in charge in this scenario? You or her?

You can ask for her opinion, but ultimately it is YOUR decision what you do with YOUR time. No one else has a say in that.

Masculine traits

An emperor on a horse with his servant
Are you a conqueror? Or just a shell of what your ancestors were?

So what then makes a true man? A man who is desired by women, people, friends, and family, and can change the world for good?

  • Purpose
  • Strength
  • Integrity
  • Confidence
  • Decisiveness


A true man has a divine purpose for his life. He wants to achieve something. It doesn’t matter what it is, everyone has their own goals. But you know exactly what you want, and most importantly, you go after it.

This is a big part of the male frame, which is the basis for interacting with women as well.

You don’t sit around, thinking all the time on how to do it. You go out and do.

And while you do, you learn from mistakes, adjust your course, and keep failing forward.

A man without a purpose for his life is lost.

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This is physically as well as mentally.

You need physical strength to protect your loved ones. You never know what happens in this world.

A man needs to be able to protect himself and others. At any given time. Plus, the respect you gain for yourself by molding a proper masculine body can’t be faked. The iron never lies.

Mental strength is dealing with the curveballs of life as well as with the feminine chaos. Women are emotional.

They throw tantrums, shit-tests, and they are irrational. A proper man is a pillar in this room. He stands the tests with ease and does not kneel to any shit thrown towards him.

Leonidas from 300 holding his shield against a storm.

If you follow a mission, you will encounter a ton of issues, problems, and drawbacks.

You need the mental strength to not fall down crying at every small issue. You face them full-frontal. That’s why men are aggressive. They attack problems.

A man’s true strength comes from being tested a thousand times.

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Your armor will be tested from all sides. Women, bosses, kids, friends, family, colleagues.

Everyone will intentionally or unintentionally test if your virtues are true. If you really stand for what you believe in. This is integrity. You live by your virtues at all times.

This also means you stand up for other people. If a man is bashed in a conversation, although you know he is right, you stand up for him and fight on his side. You don’t let him drown in bullshit. You fight for what is right!

A true man can never let his values be undermined. He fights for them against all odds.

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True confidence is built. By what you already achieved, and all the hardship you went through. You can only fake so much confidence.

At some point, it will shine through. A truly confident man knows what he is capable of.

He attacks life with full confidence since he knows he can handle it. And if he can’t, he knows he will learn from it to fight it again.

A man’s confidence is like a metal shield. Through hourless beating on its material, it becomes impenetrable.

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Confidence is not second-guessing everything you do. Overthinking. You believe in who you are. You are comfortable with that person. Your true masculinity.

A man knows, he has flaws. He doesn’t hide them. Real confidence is knowing everything you’re bad at, but not hiding it. If you accept all your flaws, nobody can harm you. There is nothing someone can attack you with. The result of this is pure, uncovered confidence in yourself.


There is nothing more annoying than a man who doesn’t lead. Who doesn’t take charge. Women tell you they hate it. And so does everybody else.

A conqueror needs to lead himself and other people. You can’t lead if you can’t make decisions.

For yourself, as well as for other people. Especially our own family.

It is on you to decide. This has the burden of responsibility, but also the reward of being responsible for a positive outcome.

The nature of man makes him a leader. A man who does not lead, is denying his deepest self.

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As I told you before. The female egg doesn’t decide anything, it is stationary. It is on the man to decide where to go, what to do, who to fertilize. It is your deepest biology to make decisions. Do not suppress it!

Take the lead!

The counterculture

Handsome bearded man in front of motorcycle
Being a masculine man these days makes you the counterculture. Embrace it. Feed off of it.

Those are only five traits of masculinity. There is obviously way more to being a man.

I would highly recommend reading The way of Men. A great book by Jack Donovan, every man should have read.

It details what man is actually about. How he came to be who he is. And why you should get back to being a real man.

This society fights true masculinity like crazy. Multiple reasons for that which would make this article too long. Just realize that being a classic man is now the counterculture.

The majority of people are depressed, lazy, non-achieving, tired, useless. So, your best bet is to just not be like the majority of people, right? It’s not that hard.

Get back with your biology. Become a real man.

As nature designed you.

Trust me, as someone who been on both sides, the masculine side is much, much better.

Who runs the world? Gir… men!

Remember that stupid song? Beyoncè’s “Who runs the world? Girls!” Beyoncé has a thing with female power. And sadly, she is very successful with her music, which means pop culture is indoctrinating our women. But society chose a bad role model. She had a bunch of boyfriends, but no marriage, no kids, no family. Why are we listening to her?

But it’s not just her, it’s a common theme these days in music, TV shows, movies, everywhere, that women don’t need no man, that they are strong and independent. That’s a whole post on its own, but what is also implied all the time is this: the male love is nothing more than “female praise”.

These songs are prayers to the female goddess, and I’ve talked about this misconception before. Male love is very different, I’ll get to that in a second, but lets first talk about the issues these prayers to the female Poseidon imply.

Sacrificing for the goddess

What most men do these days is living their woman’s dream instead of their own.

You buy her a house, buy her a nice car, buy her dresses; you have kids you rarely see because you work a shit job you hate to pay for the mortgage. Then you come home late, so you don’t even see your kids, and the wife is oh so tired from not leaving the house all day. You don’t have sex either, because she is tired, when in reality she just doesn’t feel any tingles for your dad-bod and your inability to achieve greatness.

A happy man provides for his family, but he shall never neglect his soul in the process.

The conqueror

She gets to have everything, while you have nothing. Where are your dreams in this?

Maybe this is a bit exaggerated, and with a proper frame of yours, it’s not that bad. But still, most guys who get themselves into this situation never live their own dreams. They sacrifice them to please the goddess at home.

And that’s exactly what pop culture tells you is a great man.

He sacrifices everything. Which is sold as “growing up” to please the woman and make her life easy. That is portrayed as “male love” in these movies. Setting yourself on fire to keep others warm.

Problem is, this has nothing to do with love, what this is, is a servant – deity relationship. You are a provider, not a husband.

The problem with female validation

Now a bunch of so-called alpha’s will pop up and laugh at the Nice Guy for being in that situation. But they have it backward as well. If you see a guy whose only goal in life is to fuck as many women as he can, he is still caught in the fangs of the goddess.

He needs female validation to be someone. (exceptions apply of course)

If you’re a Seducer or a Nice Guy, doesn’t matter. You’re both on the same side of the coin. You both sacrifice everything to please the female. You just use different tools. Both of you are living the woman’s dream instead of your own.

And this makes both of you mad. Seducer’s hate-fuck the women to feel above them, since they are in a submissive state while having sex, and the Nice Guy occasionally lashes out with back-biting shit.

Both are grounded in resentment. Because both betray their soul.

Male love

True male love is very deep. Women will mouth the words that a man can never really love like a woman, but this is horseshit. It’s actually exactly backward. Men are the real romantics. No woman can ever love a man like he can love a woman. Men don’t love as quickly as women, but if they fall in love, it is very deep. How else could you explain sacrificing everything to the goddess? You love your chains.

But what healthy male love is, is something else. It means you first and foremost love yourself. You follow your dreams.

First of all, you have dreams, which is a problem for lots of guys in marriages. Something you want to achieve, someone you want to be.

Your woman is not a goddess. She is just another human by your side. Your love is not, and I repeat, your love is not unconditional. You will only provide for her if she gives you something in return. Get out of that slave mindset. You are your own person!

The male love is very deep. A wise man is careful who he gifts with his love. Not every woman is worthy of it.

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She has to earn your love! Don’t just give it to her! Free things are usually worthless!

Love and purpose

These two things go hand in hand. You need to find your purpose. A man has something he lives for. You focus your attention on that thing. Whatever it is, if you don’t know what you want (and you probably don’t), check this post on how to find yourself.

And if you are on track to finding your purpose, you will go after it. You will make sacrifices for yourself. This might mean, you see your kids even less, and at first, this might mean even less sex. But think of this, your kids don’t need a father who hates himself for not being someone. Which will end up in hating your kids, because they are one of the reasons why you can’t be yourself. You don’t make a great father this way.

A true man is aware of the dangers of resentment. He is in control of his emotions by being in control of his purpose.

The conqueror

It’s not just the kids. You don’t make a great husband either. Your woman didn’t choose you to be her provider. You made that yourself. She settled for it, because it is still better than nothing, and, well, she is stuck in that situation as well. Women can rarely provide for themselves and a kid. So she would never leave, but she is unhappy with that as well.

Women don’t want to be worshipped, they want to be submissive.

So you definitely need to follow your dreams. You don’t fully neglect hers or your kids dreams, either. You find a balance. It’s a tough track to go, but nothing is ever easy. Especially if you boxed yourself in that corner.

Advice to young men

If you aren’t married yet, no kids, no house, no debt. Congratulations. But don’t fuck it up in the future either. Married life and parental life is much easier if you have a shitton of money. Right? So use the next five years to set yourself up. Most guys have it backward, they try to fuck women at a young age and marry one. And then they try to make money to provide.

Use your young age, and no strings attached time to take risks. Start a business, move to another country, whatever. Do it as long as you’re young and make money. Then, when you are set up, you can take your time to choose a girl to marry.

Advice to older men

Gentlemen, you can’t turn back time. So you need to play the cards you currently have. First, check out this blog post on how to find yourself, and then this one on how to escape 9-5 hell. And also this case study on how to make a million dollars passive.

Now, in your position, shit isn’t easy. You can’t take as many risks as a young guy, but you can still do something. Do you want to live like your current self until you die? The other day I was talking to a friend, his colleague worked his whole life until he was 70. Two weeks after he retired he died of a heart attack.

Dude worked his whole life, a shit job. Never had the freedom to experience life. And when he is finally free, he dies.

That’s fucking sad. I don’t want you to be that guy! Experience life before it’s too late!

Try to get something started on the side. A side-hustle. Anything, really. It’ll take a while, but it doesn’t matter. At least you have something to work towards. A purpose! That’s way better than knowing you will never be free!

Breaking free

Break the chains that surround you. I don’t know the details of your life. Maybe your wife is actually a bitch and you need to divorce her. Although I would recommend setting yourself up properly for about a year and then decide. If she is still bitchy, get her out. Sure, the divorce will set you back, but this isn’t a life worth living. You have enough battles to fight, a woman making it extra hard isn’t helping. Find one that supports you.

The feminine can only be worthy a man’s time if she supports him in his goals. You shall choose wisely.

The conqueror

But first of all, get rid of that wrong image of what male love should be. Fuck Beyoncé. Not literally. Don’t believe in the lies. You are a man! You lead, you take charge, you do what you want. I hope you’ve read Part I to know what a real man is. What true masculinity is like.

Don’t let a woman tell you what it’s like to have a dick.

I don’t go out and tell women how it’s like to receive a baby. I mean? That’s just crazy.

Listen to guys like me! Guys who have been on both sides. I know how you feel, I’ve been in your shoes. Do not apologize for your manliness. Follow your passion, your dreams. Find a purpose, make it happen. Always remember, one of the greatest quotes of our beloved conqueror:

A wise man knows, you are not with the woman. She is with you. You follow your purpose, and she shall follow you. As biology demands, the man leads, the woman follows.

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If she doesn’t support you properly, as a woman should, get her out. There are 4 billion women out there. Ditch that scarcity mindset. You only have one life. But so many women. Don’t focus on one who makes you miserable.

You are a human! You should be treated like one!

Take back your power. Take back your soul.

And live life on your accord.

Nobody else will do it for you.

–Alexander Graves

Have you been lied to what true masculinity is? Positive masculinity? Probably your whole life? Let me know in the comments what you experienced!

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