Welcome to SELFCONQUERING, where I help you make your wife crave sex with you.

How? It all lives under the mantra of SHE'LL START SUCKING WHEN YOU STOP SUCKING. This is not a pickup-artist blog, there are enough of these out there. Here we create (and re-create) great relationships and marriages, help you fix your mindset, spirituality, and generally help you enjoy and win at life.

Some call me a sexist pig, some call me a con-artist. Others say I've changed their life forever. Decide for yourself.


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