"He Who Conquers Himself

is the Mightiest Warrior." 

Can you have it ALL? I helped thousands of Men Succeed Not Only In Their Business, Women, their Family, Sexuality, but most importantly, their love for Life.

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Learn why the Red Pill is a Lie, and how you can get everything you ever wanted as a man, without playing games! And HOW THIS will accelerate your (business) growth!

Master Every Area Of Your Life!

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(Re)-Start Enjoying the Woman You Once Chose. You can have her back. And once you do, EVERYTHING in Your Life Will Fall in Place.

Stop neglecting the most powerful Relationship you have!

Too many guys make the same mistake I made in the past. Focusing all your time and energy on making money, running your business, with the thought, "ONCE I have everything settled, I will focus on my relationship."

You even hear the manosphere and Red Pill Gurus tell you that you should hustle in your 20s, then focus on women in your 30s.

If that's true, how did men of the past have a family in their mid 20s and still built Empires that lasted forever?

After many failures and almost divorcing my wife, I came to the realization that I could and SHOULD use this person for more than just getting my dick wet. That she can not just be a great advisor with her feminine intuition, but also be a modulator for MY PERSONAL growth.

Instead of being mad at her nagging, I realized she has some valid points. So I went on a deep journey, figured out the reason, and realized, my business ran BETTER once I made her a part of the journey.

Just like families build dynasties in the past, you too can create a massive empire if you use the masculine AND feminine power in tandem. Which will ALSO help you get into MUCH DEEPER (pun intended) love making with her. In ways, you never could've imagined. I'll show you how.

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I am passionate about achieving EVERYTHING in a marriage. You can (and should) use your wife for more than just getting your dick wet.

And if you do it right (I'll show you how), she will be a Massive Modulator for your business growth.

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The best way to get REALLY deep insight into the topics I cover is via the YouTube Channel.

On there, I explain in-depth, and with practical advice HOW to conquer yourself, traps to avoid, mistakes I made in the process of getting abundance in all things.

Powerful relationships, how the masculine and feminine operate, tools and techniques to build a STRONG Mind, and Divine Subconscious Power to MANIFEST things into your reality.

Who is Alexander Graves?

My Name is Alexander Graves, and over the past five years I completely CONQUERED myself. My mind, my body, my masculinity, my marriage, my life.

I was barely making enough money, my business was struggling, was bad with women and my own relationship, and was ridden with social anxiety, although faking it outwardly.

Through Shadow Work and finding my TRUE, Masculine Core, (re-)enjoying my marriage, I solved ALL these issues!

This blog already helped thousands of men achieve everything they want by ENLIGHTENING the FIRE in their soul. By conquering themselves first. I cover everything from how to (correctly) handle relationships, sex, creating an unbreakable mindset, personal growth, spirituality, and what it means to raise your consciousness.

Accelerate your success! Maximize your life. Conquer EVERYTHING!

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With a bit of flattery, I have learned more in a few weeks than in 6 months of any other program I took. Good shit Alexander!


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Alexander has been a great sounding board and the catalyst for my introspection. First and foremost he has helped improve my self relationship and that has led to a significant change in mindset. I now view my wife as a true partner and no longer get agitated when there are disagreements. This has resulted in an improved and continually improving relationship with my wife and re-sparked the fire we had at the start of our relationships.  


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Alex is awesome! He had me pegged from the first email! It's like he was reading me and knew exactly who I was. His perspective has been enlighening. I am definitely seeing my life change from call to call. My woman is alot more open and receptive to me, she's following my lead instead of challenging and second-guessing me, and our lovemaking has definitely improved! I no longer see her as an adversary. She's my partner and teammate in this journey. He's very easy to talk to, and I have experienced many breakthroughs in only 5 calls! I am well on the way to becoming the man I was born to be, and I owe it to Alex!


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