"You can only cherish the upsides of your life, if you soldier through the downsides." --Alexander Graves

Alexander is the single child, who also grew up without his father around in a complete "standard" middle-class somewhat small city in Southern Germany.

He grew up surrounded by women, and thus never learned how to properly interact with the feminine energy, pedestalizing them in the process. He became the classic "Nice Guy."

He worked 10 years as a programmer, thinking being the "cog in the system" is just how life unfolds. Spending his free time playing videogames to get "achievements" and watching porn for the "dopamine kick" and filling his existence.

Once he found his rock-bottom a few years into his marriage (more of which you can read about here), he set out to finally give his life meaning.
More than just escaping it on weekends with alcohol.

He became obsessed with self-improvement. First found on Twitter, he quickly resorted to famous books, courses, and mentors. He failed 12 businesses (and business ideas) in the process, bought too many courses, read 100+ books, before he finally realized what his purpose in life is:

To help other people raise their consciousness, develop passionate relationships, find their POWERFUL, FIERY SOUL as men, and create indomitable mindsets to withstand all trials and tribulations of life.

This process took him over 4 years of back and forth, failing, progressing, and finally succeeding.

While SELFCONQUERING started as a relationship blog for men to realize they need to conquer themselves first, before they can ask their girls to be more interested, it quickly became much bigger than that.

Now it is a knowledge hub for all topics that improve your life. Initially only focused on men, women also find many powerful and helpful tools on here.

The best starting point for any man or woman is to emotionally detach yourself. For this, he created a 100% FREE Course which you can find here:

The SELFCONQUERING Journey never ends. Thus, nobody knows which endeavour Alexander will conquer next.

If you want to see him live and in action, check out his Youtube Channel for in-depth knowledge!